Articles on love and relationships.
32 pieces in this category.
Why Neothink Makes You Irresistible
How a mind operating in creative mode signals the highest mate value, why integrated intelligence draws lasting partners, and how shared values build love.
February 2, 2026
Baby Steps to Great Personal Relationships
How self-leadership builds great relationships one deliberate step at a time: following is the danger signal, and each step toward self-sufficiency replaces fear with confidence.
January 1, 2024
Earning Relationship Power Part 2 of 3
How relationship power is earned and re-earned through a shared destination, mutual effort, and deliberate protection, explained through the bike-ride model.
January 1, 2024
Leap into Love
Every decision is made in love or in fear of lack. This explains the test that separates the two and how felt lack becomes the raw material of value.
July 26, 2017
Shall We Dance in the Moonlight?
Beneath region, religion, and skin, human beings are built from the same architecture. The Neothink mind sees that division is manufactured and connection is power.
October 1, 2014
Reading Mark Hamilton's Neothink Heirlooms
How Mark Hamilton's Neothink Heirlooms return authority over one's own thinking and build a daily discipline of self-discovery and self-capture.
December 26, 2011
Cultivate Captivation
Why captivation is the readable sign of a living relationship, and how a service-based bond replaces the control that drains fascination.
June 19, 2011
Jake part 3
A short story about a man who takes in a lost boy and discovers the cost of family estrangement and the worth that returns when family does.
March 15, 2011
Twelve Visions World
How members of the Neothink Society relate: clearing inherited guilt and obligation, and exchanging value honestly inside clubhouses where relationship advice carries real weight.
March 25, 2010
Color My World!
Attraction wins the first chapter of love; integration sustains every chapter after. How renewed recognition, not repeated routine, keeps love alive over a lifetime.
March 9, 2010
Internal Love vs. External Barriers
A barrier is anything between a self-led person and the life they choose. The stress-vs-love test reveals in a moment whether a choice is your own or borrowed.
January 20, 2010
The Power of Love Reflected from our Children
A creation-driven life generates energy that reaches children first, and percept-based education turns that energy into knowledge children carry forward.
December 27, 2009
Love finds a way to the Whitehouse
How the value-creator vs value-destroyer test decides both a ballot and a relationship: judge a person by the value they have built, not by what they promise.
December 23, 2009
Hurting People Hurt
Why people who hurt others are signaling unresolved pain, how unseen heart-pain becomes bitterness, and how love practiced as a trained capacity heals both sides.
December 20, 2009
Staying Power Part 3 of 3
Staying power is not loyalty or endurance. It is the capacity to keep reaching, and it lasts in work and love exactly as long as the reaching does.
September 26, 2009
Desire, Passion, Feelings and Expectations Part 1 of 3
Desire fuels passion, passion drives the creation of values, and a relationship holds only when both partners create value rather than expect it from each other.
September 16, 2009
Deer Etching in Glass
A reflection on devotion in nature and in self-led love: protection held quietly, for its own reward, so those who are guarded are free to live.
September 10, 2009
Can Music Sooth the Savage Spouse?
A tense silence in a marriage hardens around a shared space. Change the emotional environment and the mood follows. The Neothink mind applied to love and conflict.
July 30, 2009
Side Road: part 11 of 11
The closing chapter of Side Road: how a self-led woman leaves a stressful job and a draining relationship, builds a living from work she loves, and arrives at prosperity and shared love.
July 25, 2009
Side Road - part 10 of 11
Part 10 of the Side Road story: a cleared misunderstanding reopens Ember's relationship and her art, and the confidence she lost quietly returns.
July 21, 2009
Side Road - part 9 of 11
Ember settles into Blooming Bud and builds a self-directed life, then misreads Paul's dinner invitation and turns him away over an assumption she never checked.
July 14, 2009
Side Road: part 8 of 11
A serialized story: discarded after twenty-three years of marriage, Emy turns the moment of loss into the moment she reclaims her own life and begins to lead it herself.
July 12, 2009
Side Road - part 7 of 11
A short fiction chapter read as a study in self-leadership: a potter arranges her home, work, and community around her craft and decides on her own judgment.
July 10, 2009
Side Road - Part 6 of 11
Emy stands between a studio built for her work and a household that treats her belongings as junk. The choice shows what a self-led life is built around.
July 8, 2009
Side Road: Part 3 of 11
A diner scene where loved work erases the line between labor and escape, and stepping onto the side road becomes an act of self-leadership.
June 27, 2009
Side Road - part 1 of 11
A serialized parable about a paralegal who trades her creative life for other people's deadlines, and the morning she begins to turn back toward it.
June 25, 2009
Business or Pleasure
How a well-planned wedding models a sound business plan: map the outcome, fill each role with someone who profits by filling it well, and every party gains.
June 18, 2009
What's Love Got to Do with It? How to Fall Out of Love
Love does not fade by accident. It erodes when a person is drained of wealth-creation, health, and happiness, and it returns when those three are restored.
June 13, 2009
Fall in Love
Lasting romantic love begins with self-love and personal authorship. Why feeling fades when happiness is outsourced, and how to reclaim command of your own life.
May 24, 2009
Accepting Someone to Love
How self-acceptance becomes the foundation for accepting and loving another, and why two whole people who provide for their own needs exchange value as equals.
May 24, 2009
The Look of Love in the Garden
How abiding love grows from value creation: two people who build real value in each other's presence give the love between them solid ground to stand on.
May 16, 2009
What is Love?
The Neothink Society defines love as steady respect for who a person is and is becoming, and explains why lasting love begins with self-worth.
May 9, 2009
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