Have you taken a soft-look at your loving relationship lately? Do you still find fascination with your partner? Are you captivated by their creativity and honesty towards your relationship? If so, you are within a growing relationship, so, be sure to add fascination to the relationship as well! If you find little to be fascinated about, and, little communication exists between the two of you, you may be sharing a relationship that is control-based.
As adults we do not need to control each other. Letting go of control on another, and, no longer allowing another to control you, allows for creativity and pleasurable moments. As children we need protected so creativity flourishes. As adults freedom allows creativity to re-surface and our creative imaginations can add value to our relationships. Freedom and creativity move a relationship into a new dimension, a service-based relationship.
Are you ready to move from a power-based relationship to a service-based relationship? If so, simply look back to joy filled moments. Remember how good it felt to create together, and, how much fun it was in the beginning. Find ways to serve your partner again to build happiness, and, before you know it, you will find your own needs served more often too! Be captivating (fascinating) not controlling to add value to life.
