Mark, that is the most touching story I have ever read and I wish with all of my heart that I could have had the privilege of that kind of informed explanation when I was growing up.  Love has always been such a wonderful gift for me, but I just have not had the experience of sharing with anyone the way I thought it should be.  It is never too late to learn, and I have learned so much from Superpuzzle. I have gained much power. D.D.